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Finding Independence After Life In An Orphanage

Finding Independence After Life In An Orphanage

Children who are placed in orphanages usually go through many more difficulties than their peers. As well as the emotional challenges associated with being separated from their families, children in institutional care often lack support, and struggle in school….

Raising Awareness Of Orphanage Issues In Rural Myanmar

Raising Awareness Of Orphanage Issues In Rural Myanmar

In many rural areas of Myanmar it has sadly become fairly common for families to send their children away to orphanages, whenever a difficult situation arises. A major problem is that when one family sends their child away, it can encourage others to follow suit…

Children in Myanmar Orphanages Face Bullying

Children in Myanmar Orphanages Face Bullying

Every day in Myanmar, children are sent away from their families to live in orphanages. One boy who ended up in an orphanage in Yangon came from a small, rural village. He and his older sister were sent away in the hope that they would receive a better education outside their village….

How Family Breakdown In Myanmar Causes Children To Be Placed in Orphanages 

How Family Breakdown In Myanmar Causes Children To Be Placed in Orphanages 

Family breakdown is one of the biggest reasons why children in Myanmar are placed into orphanages. Without support to help parents during these difficult times, whole families can rip apart. When Tar and Lay’s parents got divorced, their lives were changed forever…

The Impact Of Orphanage Trafficking On One Myanmar Family

Blessing at home with her Mother and sisters

Blessing at home with her Mother and sisters

Blessing’s Story

At six years old, Blessing was the eldest of three daughters. She came from a remote village in Layshi township, which is completely surrounded by beautiful mountains. There is a reasonable level of education available in the village (this year Sagaing Division had a higher Grade 10 pass rate than the national average), and children there are able to attend both primary and secondary school. Despite this, parents hold a deep-rooted belief that schools in the larger cities are better. Because of this, children are often sent away from their families to live in either Buddhist monasteries or Christian orphanages. It is common for one child from each family to be sent away, and Blessing was one of these children. 

One day, a man visited Blessing’s village to recruit children to be sent to orphanages in Yangon (read more about orphanage trafficking). Many families are seduced by the promise of a good education with free board and lodging, and give up their children hoping that it will lead to them having a better life. In most cases the opposite is true. The man who visited Blessing’s village collected ten children that day, as well as Blessing. Blessing was separated from her parents and two younger sisters. As she left, her father gave her some new clothes. Both he and Blessing were optimistic about what her new life would be like in Yangon. 

Blessing with her youngest sister

Blessing with her youngest sister

When Blessing was admitted to the orphanage, she struggled to transition to her new life, and began to realise that it was harder to be away from her community than she thought it would be. She missed the food from her home, and her family, and she was forced to repeat a year in school as no one had arranged a school transfer certificate for her. Two years went by, and Blessing had almost completely forgotten her ethnic language. 

Kinnected social workers met Blessing as they came to work alongside the orphanage she had been placed in. They took Blessing back during the summer holidays to visit her family, and conducted seminars in her village to bring awareness about the disadvantages of living in orphanages and the effects such a life would have on child development. Blessing’s mother began to worry about her daughter. She said, “If my daughter gets sick, who is going to care for her? Who is going to make sure my daughter is under her blanket at night?” As a result of these seminars, Blessing’s mother decided that her daughter would remain at home. 

Blessing in her school uniform

Blessing in her school uniform

Blessing has been back permanently with her family for over a year. She is happy to be home, and now attends school in the village. She helps her mother with chores and in taking care of her younger sisters. She has regained her ability to speak her ethnic language fluently and is very sociable, having made friends in the community! Kinnected Myanmar is currently providing school support for Blessing and is continuing to monitor her progress for the time being. 

Support given to orphanages from well-meaning people has created an orphanage ‘industry’ that exploits local communities and families in Myanmar. The best way to help prevent families like Blessing’s from being taken advantage of by child recruiters is to advocate for family care, and dissuade others from supporting residential institutions. Children belong in families, where they can receive love and support throughout their lives. We all have a role to play in preventing family separation. 

Blessing with her sisters and friend

Blessing with her sisters and friend

A Family Reunited

A Family Reunited

Maung and Khui are from a remote village in Chin State, Myanmar. When Maung was just three years old, his father passed away and their mother was left to care for him and his siblings.

From Orphanage To Family - One Boy’s Journey Home.

From Orphanage To Family - One Boy’s Journey Home.

Earlier this year, during the school summer holidays, Kinnected social workers accompanied 8-year-old Kyaw and six other boys from the same orphanage on a long bus journey back home.